What is life when you do not have joy? What is life when you do not have the privilege of failing? I say privilege of failing, because only those who try to do things outside the box usually fail, see how I added usually.

Yes, it is a real fact that I have learnt from my mistakes, those failures have made me do better and continue doing better in life, may it be my personal life, work or for that matter blogging.

Failures sum up my experience. The first one I recollect is where I went wayward and almost messed up my life when I was between 14-18, however, thanks to my family back then I got back on track and continued my life to bring it on the right track. However, that mistake led me to ensure that my life would not be flaky again.

I also failed a lot in the past year or so in my personal life, however, thanks to the support of a very loved one I have managed to change myself and become a better person. Again, those mistakes made me realize what I was doing wrong and propped me up to correct them and ensure that I do not do them again.

Without those failures I would not have been able to get back on the right track, I would have continued doing what I did, studying, sucking or whatever, but nothing would have changed, it would have been just another life. However, I have learnt how to bounce out of failures and be successful. I have you might call something as "mastered the art of bucking up my ass after failures".

My first failure propped me up do do something better and within a span of the next 4 years, I bought my own apartment. Can you believe it? Well, I know you can’t but neither could I and neither could anyone who knew me between the ages of 14-18, but I did.

My most recent and most important failure of my life has been the one I really wanted to rectify and ensure that I do not repeat, I won’t disclose it, but I put in all my efforts and made sure it was successful, and with that I hope to have that success all my life soon.

On the whole this changed my perspective about things and I took failure as I would take success, taking something out of both these things and moving ahead. It is not that I have always failed to succeed, I have had success outright, however, I do ensure that my failures do not bog me down and that I get up from it and do better. There is a saying called "A man bounces back faster when he is down" and I try to make sure that I follow it to the core.

My Blogging career has been the same, miffed with success, failures, success, failures and more failures. Even with more and more failures, I did not lose hope, with no money, I did not leave blogging. I continued doing it giving time to improve on my mistakes and also improving on what I think should be put into the right place.

These efforts are now showing and I am pretty happy with it. I strived a lot for this and I was able to convert mistakes into profitable things from which I learnt. I hope to continue this learning curve and hope to make most of both the good things and bad things.

Blogging has been quite an experience for me, I made so many friends across the world that I would not have imagined otherwise. I met a lot of people too this time on my trip to India and will always cherish those memories, without blogging I would not have known those people and that in itself has me drooling over it.

I love my life, I love my job, I love blogging, I also love my family and the most important I love my someone special and hope to be hers forever in the next few months, that would make me happier than any other achievement I have made in my life. I love you bacchu, miss you too.

P.S. I am not saying that you should fail in order to succeed, however, I am saying that you should succeed and learn from your failures and not treat it as a dejection.

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